I understand the connections of Shikinami -> Ooi, Ayanami -> Sendai (maybe) and Oboro -> Zuikaku. Not the rest tho
Akebono and Ushio were in the same fleet as Nachi and Abukuma at Luzon.
Sazanami went as escort with Shouhou at Coral.
Amagiri and Mochizuki went as escort for Choukai and Kinugasa in the bombardment of Henderson airfield.
Kumano, Suzuya, Sagiri and Fubuki (as well as Yura, Murakumo and some others not implemented ingame) were the escort for a transport departed from Cam Ranh to enforce the occupation of Miri and Seria. That was a few days before Sagiri sank too.
